Engagement photos are important. They are usually some of the first photos that commemorate your decision to get married (that sounds so official) Engagement photos are fun and remind you why you want to marry Mr. Perfect For You.

I came up with 5 tips to help get fabulous engagement photos and the reason why you want to have engagement photos taken by your wedding photographer.

1 – An Engagement Session gives you the opportunity to get to know your photographer. It helps when you all feel comfortable with each other. Meeting a photographer for the very first time on your wedding day makes it a little bit difficult to be at ease. I love the opportunity to meet with my clients for an engagement shoot. We get to laugh together, learn a little bit of background info, and usually clown around. An Engagement session should be laid back and usually more casual. Reluctant fiance? If your fiance doesn’t want to take engagement photos – what will happen on the wedding day? It’s a great idea to overcome this reluctance early on, then once he gets to know me – we’ll be having a great time. 🙂

2 – Creativity. This is a chance for your photographer to put on her creative hat. I try and do engagement shoots in new locations. (although it’s hard when someone likes the photos and wants to go to the same place…I always say yes – but then try and get different images than before). I love getting new and unique ideas: night shots with the city light in the back, groves of trees, sunset with fabulous mountains, urban city streets, train tracks and lakes….the list goes on and on with the options that are available for engagement locations. Think outside the box and let your photographer know that you want to try something unique.

3 – Meaningful. What brought you two together? What do you like to do together? Snowboard? Puzzles? Movies? I love bringing meaningful ideas into the engagement shoot. Something that will spark a wonderful memory. Did he propose at a specific location? Let’s go there and take some photos. Think about things that are meaningful in your relationship and incorporate it into your photo session.

4 – Romantic & Fun. Unlike any other photo shoot – your engagement session should be romantic and fun. I love when my clients are cuddly, loving and laughing with each other. I can always ask them to look at me and get a nice smile – but it’s when they try and forget about me that their true romance begins to shine through. It’s nice to look back at these images years later and remember what it felt like. Here are some photos of when we were engaged. (I look so young!!) When I look at these photos I remember how much I love my husband. It’s been 13 years and my love for him just continues to grow.

5 – Don’t dress up too much. I know that sounds odd – but your engagement session should be about you, not your clothes. Don’t wear clothing thats uncomfortable. Nice, comfortable clothing is best. If you have to constantly adjust and rearrange what you are wearing…then chances are you don’t feel all that comfortable. Also – don’t stress so much about your shoes. I rarely get very many photos of shoes. I’m sorry. I know that shoes are a big deal and those pumps make you look amazing! But, I’m typically more interested in capturing the emotion between the two of you vs. the amazing red slingbacks you love.

But the best tip of all – Make sure you have your engagement photos printed! Have some 4×6’s printed and put them at your workplace and the sunvisor of your car. Print larger copies and frame them for your hallway, front room or entry way. These photos will be a lasting and wonderful memory of the love you share.

This morning was way too much fun….
I was able to meet with 5 fabulous couples at the DoubleTree Resort in Scottsdale. Allison was so amazing to make the DoubleTree available for our photo shoot….Thank you Allison! (You need to give her a call…she is amazing and her venue is Fantabulous!)

Each mini-session was short, sweet and to the point. We were able to capture some amazing images. Each session was 20 minutes long…and we ended up with about a dozen photos for each couple. All around a wonderful morning!

Thank you, Thank you! I really appreciate the opportunity to shoot with such amazing people!
Also – a Big Thank You to Chris Paxman it was so great working with you today 🙂 If you don’t see yourself here on my blog…then check out Chris’ blog – he has your photos up over there. Or just give me a call 602-628-0301 and we’ll get them for you. 🙂

Heather & Travis – Summer 2012

Renette & Phil – May 2012

Jessica & Phil – May 2012 

Leia & Beren – April 2012

Lauren & Richard – Fall 2012

 Flowers are essential for a wedding. Without them, it’s just not quite the same. We all know that a bouquet is “oh-so-important”….but what about the rest of the flowers throughout the wedding day.

Choosing wedding flowers can be interesting….you can get any type of flower at any time. However! Remember that the pricing of flowers is dependant upon the season. Keeping that in mind…and if you are planning a wedding in May/June – then Peonies would be a good candidate. If it’s December – then you probably would pay a whole lot more to have them shipped in…plus the fact that they won’t be as fresh.

Now, I’m not going to pretend to know a lot about flowers. I can only name a few and those include: roses, daisies, and now peonies…But I do know that working with a professional florist is so important! Your florist will know what’s in season during your wedding day. She will be able to give you ideas and work within your budget. Her job is to make sure that your flowers look amazing in your hands and throughout your ceremony & reception.

I’ve heard way too many stories of do-it-yourself headaches when it came to the flowers. Now, don’t get me wrong…doing it yourself is great – When you know what you’re doing! I wouldn’t even begin to know how long a flower will last after I buy it. I never knew that a standard fridge is too cold for almost all flowers (standard fridge can freeze and kill your flowers). And I sure didn’t know that once a rose starts to open…then it’s already way past it’s “fresh” phase and won’t be looking good for too much longer.

How did I learn all this valuable (although brief) flower info?? I learned it from a professional florist (a few of them actually). I’m not surprised at all that they are willing to share their information with nearly everyone. A professional florist LOVES what she does. She knows flowers….give yours a call and see how she can help you.

Don’t know a florist? Call me and I’ll point you in the right direction. Or go to my FB page – I “like” quite a few really great florists.

 

 

  • June 20, 2011 - 4:29 pm

    joel - Thank you for this blog. I appreciate itReplyCancel

Tori is a great kid. She wants to be a model…but she doesn’t want to wait till she grows up – she is working on it now. This photo shoot was for her portfolio.

This photo shoot was tons of fun. She was amazing! Chris came with me and together we were able to catch some of her wonderful personality.

It’s time to start thinking about “The Tux”. I recently found (and shared) this joke on Facebook

“So if the bride wears white, because it is the happiest day of her life, why does the groom wear black?” It just made me laugh! 🙂

But then I got to thinking….why does a groom wear a black tux? I did a little bit of research online…and low and behold…..(drum roll)…I didn’t find a single reason. Black tuxedos are more popular because they can be used for any occasion. It seems like if you are going to purchase your tux…get a black one – then you’ll be able to use it again. However, gray and white tuxedos are strictly for weddings and shouldn’t be worn for any other occasion.

I did find this sweet link with more info for choosing a tuxedo http://www.dummies.com/how-to/content/choosing-a-tuxedo-or-suit-for-your-wedding-day.html

 PS – I think any black tuxedo can make a man look amazing…When my husband is wearing his tux…it’s like he’s suddenly 10 times sexier.
PSS – That may have been a little bit TMI…sorry 🙂
PSS – What type and color of tuxedo do you like best?

  • June 20, 2011 - 2:56 pm

    Donny Iyo - This is exactly what I was looking for. Thanks for reposting this info – it will come in handy this week when I go out and finally start looking at tuxes. Thank youReplyCancel